【每日互动话题】你把网恋当真情了吗？（第706期）

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　　每日E文，【每日互动话题】你把网恋当真情了吗？（第706期），你把网恋当真情了吗??Do you take the cyber love for serious?有人说:网恋很美，美得如同绚丽多彩的梦

　　Thetopicissomewhattricky,ascyberloveistraditionallytreatedasfictionalandtransient.Ifonetakesitserious,he/shewillgethurt,sinceacertainresultofcyberloveisnotperfectwithdepression.Wehaveheardthesimilarstoryforhundredsoftimesaboutmiserableendingofcyberlove.

　　Thenetworkshaveappearedformorethanadecade,andpeoplearelayinglessandlessattentiononcyberlove.Inotherwords,cyberloveisnotalatestandfashionedtermanymore.However,IstillrememberforthefirsttimewhenIloggedontoachattingcyberroom,Ifeltquiteexcitedandcurious.Thepeopleinthechattingroomwereallfromthesamecollege.Gradually,withtheITdevelopment,thespreadofinternetallowsustochatwithpeoplefromdifferentcity,differentprovinces,evenfromdifferentcountries.Thetopicforchatingmaybevarious,fromnationalaffairtocollegelife,fromthepersonalgrowthexperiencetolifegoal.Duringthecommunication,wemayharvestfriendship,sometimes,acyberlovemayunexpectedlycome.

　　Tobefrank,thecyberloveatthefirststageisquiteprettyandfascinating.Itbringsusahugespaceforimagination.Chinesearegoodatandfondofimagination,arenotthey?Chinaisfullofculturewithalonghistory,numerousphrasesandpoemshavebeencreatedtodescribethebeautifulthings.Therefore,thecommunicationviaonlywordseasilyproduceswonderfulfeelingtowardstheotherone,sittinginfrontofcomputerscreen.

　　Nomatteryoung,old,single,married,talentedorreckless,everyonemaygetinvolvedinthecyberlove.However,Idon’tagreewiththetopicwordsthatwecanobtainthelovewhichisdifficulttofindbyamouth.Apparently,thecommunicationiswithouttheinvestmentofmoney.However,toacquireother’srespectandfriendship,onemustbesincere,oratleastyouhavetopretendtobesincere.Justimagine,ifyoumerelyanswerother’squestionthroughsimplewordswithout“communication”,thecommunicationishardtocontinue.Inadditional,ifamanoftenusedirtywordstoflirtwithalady,heisnotlikelytogetthecyberloveneither.Therefore,nomatterwhatresultyouexpecttogetfromcyber,afriend,acyberlove,orjustkillingyourtime,yououghttoinvestyourpatienceandsincerity.

　　Personally,ilikechatingwithfriends,eitherneworold.Chattingwithnewfriendscansometimesrefreshyoumemory.Thebusyworkinglifehasdrivenmetogoforward.Ontheotherhand,communicationswitholdfriendscankeepthefriendshiplonger,andexchangeusefulinformation.Butifinditismoreandmoredifficulttochatwithmyoldfriends,partlybecausetheyarealsobusywiththeirwork,whatismore,theyalsoliketohidethemselfwhenlogging.Itisquiteoftenthatevenbothofuslogontheqq,wedontrealizeeachother.

　　Itseemsigotoofar.Well,letmemovebacktotoday'stopic.MyanswertothequestionisthatiwilldefinitelytreatthecyberloveseriouslyifIdogetone.Iwontthinkmuchabouttheresultofthelove.Instead,icaretheprocessmuchmore.Thereisaoldsaying,whenyouexpectmuch,youwilllosemuch.Thecyberlove,justlikeareallove,alsoneedssomebasicelements,suchassincerity,honesty,loyaltyandpatience.Bothsidesinvolvedinthecyberloveneedtocareeachothermoresinceitismorefragilethanareallove.Forexample,itisinevitabletohaveaquarrelaftergettingalongforaperiodtime.Inatruelove,bothsidesmightgotofindtheotherandexplainthereason,whichhelptoresolvethequarral.However,foracyberlove,itisabigproblem.Theexplanationbytypingwordsorinthephoneisnoteffectiveenough.Sometimes,itmaycausesomenewmisunderstandings.

　　Seldomly,wealsohearthegoodexamplethatacyberlovegivesbirthtoarealmarriage.Forthosepeople,inmyopinion,itisthemutualinterestandharmonybetweenthemthatbringthemtogether.Ithaslittlethingstodowiththenetwork.Thenetworkisjustamediafromwhichtheyknoweachother.

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